denial..

Denial...
Working in nursery for the past +/- 3weeks telah mengajar saya a few things...
One of them is.....

The easiest way utk berdepan dgn kebenaran adalah dgn being in denial...

Yup..
I see that in parents..
Those who r supposed to take care of the babies but yet, still living in denial...

Case 1.....

Baby born prematurely...
And clinically Patau syndrome...
The 1st baby of the couple...
Yet..
The mother only comes to visit the baby twice throughout these 1 month of his life...for just a few minutes..

And the mom only look at the baby..
Xdipeluk..xdiangkat...xdicium...

Yes..he can deteriorate at anytime..
Yes his prognosis is poor..
Yes he can 'go' at any time..
And yet,the parents, knowing all these..
Still living in denial...

Masa specialist explained about the baby condition,
The father said, "istri saya lemah semangat..dia rasa dia xdpt nk jaga baby tu.."
The mother said that dia 'takut' dgn keadaan baby tu...
Huh..?
Takut...?
As in u r afraid of his fragility..?
or u r afraid of his differences..?
coz he's not.like.other cute.little.babies....kan?

Hari2 di kala saya review the baby i will always say to him -
Bersabar ya sayang..

Coz he deserves that..

He is a fighter...
Jantung nye yang ada PDA,VSD and  ?ASD itu masih kuat berdenyut sehari-hari menanti kedatangan ayahbonda nya utk merasa kasih sayang mereka...

Smoga ayahbondanya bakal mencurahkan hati mereka pdnya..

Case 2-

A baby born to a couple aged 27 y/o mother and 32 y/o father...
Has cleft lip and palate..
And clinically down syndrome...

When the father was being told of the baby condition..
The father was angry..nada suara nya meninggi...
Dan berkata, "kenapa doktor ckp mcmtu..?"

Hmmmm..
Ntahla..

Kadang tu sukar hidup dgn kebenaran..
Dan menafikan kebenaran adalah lebih mudah berbanding menerimanya...

Semua ni mmg byk.memberi pengajaran pdku...

Setiap manusia diuji.dgn.cara berbeza..
Tanda sayang Yang Maha Esa pd kita...

Semoga kta semua tabah menempuhi smua cabaran dan dugaan kehidupan..

Dan..
Kena hidup dlm kebenaran...
Not in denial...

P/s: the above stories were written last night masa saya balik.keja..xdpt tido so i wrote those tp xsempat nk publish..tulis dlm kul 2am..
And sadly to say..the baby in my 1st story dah pulang ke pangkuan yg Maha Esa arini pukul 1.45pm..
I was quite bz today..so after solat zohor lebih kurang kul 2pm,i went to jenguk him at his isolation room...he was not there..i asked my HO frenz and they told me, he just passed away..alone..his body was still there..alone...
But,at least now we know he is happy in Jannah :)
Al-fatihah...

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