Hati ni terasa sperti ditusuk duri..huhu..sakit..hmm..mmg la apa yg trjadi tu tiada kaitan dgn saya, tp, i dont like guyz that cant appreciate girls..
owh yes, i dont like guys that think they are superior than girls..
men and women are made to complete each other kan...?
so, kenapa perlu nye all those harsh words...?
as if us girls are made just to be ur maid...
istri utk memasak, kena pandai masak..
istri utk mengemas umah, kena pndai menghias n bersihkan umah...
istri kena duk umah jaga anak2, so kalau bole, no need to work...(on this particular point, i am not against it actually, but i think, the wife should be given a chance to decide, either to continue working or to be at home taking care of the children...)
hmm..all these kolot thinking..no.no.no..
husband n wife are supposed to share all those house chores together right..?
that's what marriage is supposed to be...
to share all the gud things and bad things that life would offer..to share everything...
hmmm.i think, bukan je istri kena pandai masak, a husband should be able to cook too, kan..?
at least to be there to help the wife, prepares the table ke, tolong siang2 kan ikan ke..potong2 kan bawang ke..it'll be sooo much fun to do it together,kan...?
(it is so cute tau sebenarnye...as an example, time raya aritu, disebabkan kitaorg nk masak byk benda, even my abah turun dapur tolong my mama..abah yg tolong siangkan ayam2 kampung tu..coz mama+me+my adiks were busy cooking other dishes utk raya aritu..)
so, knpa slalu nye requirement from a guy to find calon istri, who is someone that can cook..? the guy should also be someone who can cook..so that, it'll be fair n square :))
owh, pasti comel kan, kalau bila ada kelapangan, wat competition memasak btwn the husband n wife..tgk masakan sape paling sedap...hehe..comel sgt2..then ajak la kawan2 dtg makan, they can be the judge too:P
hmm.i think, the issue of kemas2 umah ni, hmmm, it needs co-operation from both side..mmg la istri bole mengemas..tp bayangkan, kalau ari2 istri tu mengemas, but the husband doesnt seem to care, bila balik umah, baju campak ke mana, dgn beg/files/paperworks etc diletak je bersepah...owh, i didnt just make up this example, this is a reality..so, how do u expect the house to be bersih, kemas dan teratur if u dont give ur co-operation...and plus, i dont see any harm in hiring a maid, kn...?hmm..dont ever treat ur wife like one..or dont expect us girls to be one when we are married, sbb we girls are not...we share the same house, so why cant we share the house chores as well....?hmmm....
I dont have any intention to membebel sepanjang ini..
But,i do easily get irritated with guys who think that their future wife will be 'their maid' and not their spouse...plz la...plz sgt2...dont treat us like one....
(this entry has nothing to do with any guys yg rapat dgn saya..to be stressed once again, xde kaitan dgn mana2 jejaka [ahaks :P] yg rapat dgn saya..no no no..bukan pasal dia..juga bukan pasal mereka2 yg seposting saya..hahaha )
tetibe je....~ T T
13 years ago
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